What drugs have you tried?
For most, college is the first time many students get to experiment with substances. Whether it's peer pressure, stress or curiosity, the most common substance experimented with, during university, is Cannabis, Alcohol and Caffeine, with Alcohol and Caffeine having been explored before university. With that being said, one must be cautious when experimenting with substances, ensuring that they are in a safe environment when trying out unfamiliar substances.
Have you ever had sexual intercourse?
Besides substances, for most, college is also the first time many students get to experiment with their sexuality. While this newfound freedom, free from parental control, may feel empowering, it is important to recognize that one does not rush into figuring it all out. Taking time is natural and a crucial part of the journey.
If so, in which term did you first have sexual intercourse?
Whether it’s before university begins or during the third year, losing one’s virginity is a deeply personal journey. Not everyone has to follow the same timeline or feel pressured to do so. What matters most is ensuring that one takes things at their own pace and are not being rushed.
How many relationships have you been in during university?
Majority of students have had at least one relationship in university, with 34% respondents never having been in a relationship during university.
Are you currently in a relationship?
54% of the respondents are currently not in a relationship while 42% do have a partner.
What portion of your university experience was spent in a relationship?
As seen earlier, nearly 36% of students have not been in a relationship during their time at the university. Of the students that did have a relationship, 26% were in it for roughly 30% of their time at Waterloo. The remaining students were in a relationship for more than 1/3rd of their university experience.
Have you ever been caught up in a cheating situation
While the majority of respondents have not cheated during a relationship, there is a minor group of students that have been cheated on, cheated or caught in the middle of the mess.
What is your Rice Purity score?
The Rice Purity test is a 100-question survey designed to measure a person’s level of innocence based on the experiences they have had during their time at university. This survey covers topics ranging from relationships to substance and more. A higher score indicates having more ‘purity’. Nearly 25% of the respondents have a Rice Purity score between 90 and 100 and 50% of the respondents have a rice purity score between 60 – 100.
What is your Waterloo Purity Test score?
The Waterloo Purity Test is also a 100-question survey designed to track one’s experiences during their time at university. This survey covers topics ranging from relationships to substance and more. Nearly 25% of the respondents have a Waterloo Purity Score between 80 to 100 and 50% of the respondents have a Waterloo Purity Score between 70 and 100.
Be a good person and be honest about yourself
Don't look for it. The more you look, the more you won't find it.
Besides the traditional wisdom of just putting yourself out there, my best advice is to know what you need, what you're looking for, and to not gaslight yourself into believing otherwise. To some degree, this does require a bit of experimentation, but to a larger degree, this means being able to say no to people, to break it off when you know it's not right for you. This can't save you from heartbreak, but will help you find what you want in the end. The trouble is figuring out what you need and not just what you want.
Be earnest and kind. and love will find you
Try to have the best possible conversation you can with a potential partner
Dont use dating apps for love, ur not finding the one there
Know what you want during a relationship, don't get into a relationship just because you have a crush with someone.
Work on yourself and have good friends to support you
Learn respect for yourself and for others
Focus on social connection and self-confidence. People are not objects or trophies.
Be happy with your own life first
Be open and honest about your feelings and try to make genuine connections with people, don't just look for quick hookups.
Be yourself, not because that's what'll attract people but because that's what'll make a lasting relationship. At the end of the day, if someone loves an image you're presenting, it won't be sustainable or satisfying. There's someone for everyone and it's important to find the right match for your true self
Do you have any advice for people looking for a relationship?
Most of the advice shared highlighted the importance of self-confidence and the belief that relationships will naturally develop over time. Rather than forcing a connection, the key is to focus on being comfortable with yourself and letting things unfold when the right person comes along.